4 Secrets For Softening into Natural Feminine Energy

Natural feminine energy and allure dwell within each women yet modern society has conditioned women to search for these organic, God given-gifts outside of herself.

Having worked with women for over a decade, in the realms of both outer and inner feminine beauty, I have observed that women tend to get stuck on superficial "quick fixes" that only temporarily boost their self esteem.

Natural feminine embodiment is a devotional art of gradually unraveling the societal and family conditioning. It requires taking regular breaks from the world, going inwards, listening to your intuition, cultivating feminine life-force energy with devotion to align with and maintain your natural feminine energy flow. Some days our feminine devotional practices might be messy, ugly or feel blah but... can you still show up? That's the devotional practice itself.

The devotional feminine shows up for herself even in her raw, vulnerabilities and sensitivities. Even when she doesn't feel positive, even when its challenging to stay focused, even when she would rather do something else. The devotional act of taking aligned action towards her inner self and connection with God, is often times precisely what she needs to alleviate stress, gain inspiration and flow forward.

Buying the quick external fixes to look or seem more feminine makes perfect sense to a world built on consumerism.

But a woman's true feminine essence cannot just be bought. Its must be delicately revealed layer by layer. It must be tenderly explored, experienced and attuned to over and over with guided practice (because of prior masculine conditioning). From there, she naturally builds the courage to express her authetic feminine self to those she chooses to outside of her practice. Only she can connect with her inner beauty and share it.

It is not enough to just look the part of the feminine. To actually connect with your own natural feminine energy is an inward journey of integration, setting clear intentions and devotional embodiment practice.

This is why many women cannot feel their authentic feminine energy. It's just beyond the "inner work" they are putting off, piece mealing for free from social media or avoiding altogether.

If you are interested in the 4 Secrets To Soften Into Natural Feminine Energy, here are some easy, feminine devotional practices to get started right now.

1. Daily Prayer Practice: Daily prayer invites us to have an intimate connection with our Creator. This provides the feminine with a sense stability, trust and faith knowing that she can seek the protection and guidance of God anytime, anywhere. The true feminine heart knows her creative power to call upon the unseen qualities of God's goodness. Daily prayer isn’t just about asking God for "things". It's also about gratitude for all you currently are and have. Its also about learning how to listen to the signs and synchronicities bestowed upon you so that you can stay in alignment with what truly resonates with you.

2. Gratitude and Joy Practice: Rejoice! Even for the smallest of blessings. Rejoice! Even for the re-direction for it is God’s protection. Get in the habit of activating the feeling of gratitude within your body, even for the smallest of blessings. A burst of gratitude held and sustained within the body reorients your nervous system to receive more states of joy, beauty, ease and flow. Surely there is at least 5 things at all times to be grateful for, even on our worst days. Start a gratitude writing practice and train your mind to perceive all the beauty and bounty of the present.

3. Visualization: Visualization train's the mind. Did you know that your brain cannot tell the difference between imagination and 5 sense reality? It’s amazing the results you get when you diligently practice the skill and art of using your inner creative abilities towards one intention. Gaining clarity on the seeds of your future and visualizing them (wholeheartedly and repetitively) primes your mind to look for creative ways to fill in the blanks and bring that experience towards you. This is where your "organic feminine magnetism" comes into play, a concept I teach the women I work with.

   The next natural key component to visualization is taking aligned inspired action. Visualization without action is just a day dream. When you spend time in your imaginative workshop (as I like to call it), exploring and sensing your future seed from all angles within your minds eye, you will eventually get direct download of inspiration or a creative idea that is the very action you need to take to launch you into momentum and on the right track. It comes as a flash of insight that doesn’t always makes sense yet it's a deep inner knowing. Follow that spark of joy and inspiration to build your feminine intuition.

   Each time you visualize and get a creative download of information, (whether that's a hunch on what to do next, who to contact or where to go) act on it right away! Even if its one small action towards your goal, (like looking up a website or sending an inquiry email). Each time you miss an opportunity to act on inspiration right away, you loose a chance to set sail in the proper direction, and therefore loose momentum and a chance for flow.

4. Cultivating Peace and Connection Within Communities: Joining an all women’s like hearted community is the equivalent to joining a "mastermind" except I sense it as a "masterheart." When intentional women with heart intelligence gather in circle, there is an otherworldly, creative, presence available to all who are present. This co-creative collective consciousness comes together in harmony and balance to amplify each others inner light, intentions and prayers.

A women's circle is safe space to show up in authenticity with the love, support and acceptance of the other sisters in the circle.  Its a space where we get to practice healthy relating and expressing our own inner wisdom which builds the mind, heart, womb and throat chakra alliance. Within the sister’s circle, we hold loving space for the feminine in all her expressions, dark or light, all shades in between. Diversity is the most precious thing about a women's circle.

Having a positive group of women you can openly share with, who support you with the best of intentions, rejoice in your joy, pray with you and for you, well that is something extremely rare and a gift to be cherished. Find multiple positive and passionate communities to be apart of,

Natural Feminine Energy Program

And if you are searching for a comprehensive program to take you step by step of doing the feminine inner work for anchor into your unique, natural feminine energy and organic magnetism, consider taking my Intuitive Women’s Prayer Course

My Prayer Course comes with a feminine prayer course, gratitude and joy practices, guided visualize exercises AND an all women's community of supportive, loving, creative, feminine hearts.

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